It is not enough to simply say, "I need more money..." or, "I want to find my soul mate..." The question leading you to the life you seek is found only in the question, "Who must I become to attract what I want to experience next in my life?" Until you're willing to approach it from THAT direction, you'll be either a victim or bait for gimmicks and players. first get clear on what you want. then look at who you must become to deserve ( attract ) that experience. - Mike Klingler