There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout : this is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package, take me.. or leave me. accept me - or walk away! do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision. when you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you - Stacey Charter